Question 1

How do I get to Scotland? And when should I arrive?

Accepted Answer

We recommend flying into Edinburgh Airport (EDI) or taking a train to Edinburgh Waverly. For those staying in Penicuik, you can then either rent a car or take an Uber/Taxi to make the 25 minute journey outside Edinburgh.

For those traveling from abroad, we would highly recommend arriving a few days before our wedding events begin to enjoy this stunning country and adjust from the jet lag. For those attending the Thursday rehearsal dinner (invite only), please arrive in Edinburgh by Thursday afternoon.

All timings for events are under The Weekend and will be on your invitations. 
We've put together a whole page on this if you'd like more detail.

Question 2

When should I book my travel?

Accepted Answer

For those flying internationally, the best time to book flights is 6-12 months before you plan to fly.

If traveling from within the UK, train tickets can be booked roughly 4 months in advance.

Due to the limited options in Penicuik, we highly recommend booking your accommodation on the earlier side. Details on where to stay can be found here.

Question 3

Do I need a ETA/visa to travel to Scotland?

Accepted Answer

In most cases, yes. The UK has implemented a digital border which requires foreigners, including Americans, to apply for an electronic travel authorization (ETA). This does not apply to any of you who hold an Irish passport (Hi Mom!).

An ETA lasts for 2 years or until your passport expires, whichever is sooner. You can travel to the UK as many times as you want while you have an ETA, so no need to reapply if you have recently travelled to the UK.

More information can be found here: 
https://www.gov.uk/guidance/apply-for-an-electronic-travel-authorisation-eta

Question 4

How do I get to the venue?

Accepted Answer

Despite being only 30 minutes from central Edinburgh, Penicuik is very much the countryside. The most flexible way to get around is via rental car, but Uber and taxis may are be available if you don't mind waiting. You shouldn't have any trouble getting an taxi/Uber from the airport or central Edinburgh to Penicuik, but the return direction requires advanced notice to a local taxi company. We will let the local taxi companies know about our event in advance, but please let us know if you would like us to help you pre-book for a specific time.

Question 5

Where should I enter the estate & park?

Accepted Answer

Please enter via the main gates for Old Penicuik House. The gates will open automatically as a vehicle approaches. Drive all the way down the road until you reach the old ruin of Old Penicuik House. Then drive down the gravel track to the right and through the green gates (which will also open automatically).

If you are arriving via taxi/uber, instruct your driver to drop you in front of the house. If you are driving yourself, please follow the signage to park behind Penicuik House.

Do not park at the "Visitors Parking" as that is for people walking the estate and is still about a 10 minute walk from the venue.

Question 6

What will the weather be like?

Accepted Answer

Scottish weather is infamous for a reason, but luckily October is one of the milder and dryer months. We're hoping for clear days (say a prayer for us!), but also be prepared for some wet weather. Expect cool temperatures: highs are often between 53-60°F and lows between 41-45°F.

Question 7

Will the wedding be outside?

Accepted Answer

We're hoping for clear days that enable a combination of indoor and outdoor experiences across the weekend. All outdoor events will have heaters, but we recommend packing some layers.

We also have rain back ups for each part of the celebration, just in case.

Question 8

What is the dress code?

Accepted Answer

Welcome Party: Smart Casual
Wedding: Black Tie
Farewell Breakfast: Relaxed Casual

More details on the dress code can be found here.

Question 9

Can I wear a kilt?

Accepted Answer

If you are actually Scottish, yes! If you are not, please wear a tuxedo.

Question 10

When do I need to RSVP by?

Accepted Answer

Please RSVP by 1 June 2026. You can do so here.

Question 11

Can I bring a plus one?

Accepted Answer

Due to capacity, the number of guests is specified on your invitation. If you have any questions or concerns, please let us know.

Question 12

What about gifts?

Accepted Answer

Many of you are traveling across the globe to celebrate with us in Scotland. Your presence means the world to us and is the greatest gift we could ask for. If you'd still like to give us a gift, we'd be immensely grateful for contribution to our honeymoon fund or any of the items on our registry

Question 13

Will there be an after party?

Accepted Answer

We love you all, but we love sleep too. For that reason, we've planned to wrap up the wedding day around 11pm.

House guests are welcome to continue socializing in the bar lounge on the ground floor of Penicuik House, but please be mindful of any guests that may be getting their beauty sleep and keep noise to a minimum.

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